The safest way to online date is on Friends Match Me free dating with Facebook. You get to find out if you have any mutual Facebook friends with the other members. It gives you another outlet to check out the other person before meeting in a public place for the first date, after the usual checking out of the dating profile, chatting online, video chatting, and talking on the phone. The safest way to date is date someone you know. The next best thing is date someone your friend, who you trust and know, knows.